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Most people find shelters for senior citizens depressing and avoid going there. But working on this photo feature at the Pashupati Bridhashram over the past six months, I have been inexplicably uplifted. I forget the stress of living in Kathmandu and homesickness for my native Bangladesh. I feel myself fortunate that I have a family, as many of the senior citizens once had. But what gives me hope is that even though they have lost families and possessions they still care. They care for each other and they retain a deep sense of humanity. The story of how they landed up here is almost same: in the old age they become the burden to their families who dumped them at Pashupati. For the elderly, it’s sometimes a relief that they are in such a holy place and don’t have to bear the taunts of a home where they are no more welcome. None of them came here willingly, and no one has anywhere to go. The Pashupati Bridhashram is run by the government, so budget is limited, it is congested, short-staffed and shows signs of mismanagement. There are 230 residents, of which 140 are women.

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“Namaste, aram?” That is how Sankule Lati, 77, greets strangers in with a namaste and a quick tilt to her head.



Every morning and evening residents gather for bhajans. Those who can’t walk to the prayer room chant from their own beds.



Kanchi Khatri cooks food in the shelter. She was the maid servant at the home of an astrologer and when she was unable to work any more the employer brought her here nine years ago.



lati Lathauri  in her bed in the Briddhasram. Is she in the illusion of past life? At young age she was work in other house as a maidservant. She was admitted here in 2028B.s.



Dhana Kumari Ranabhat, 99, takes a bath with the help of her husband Dil Bahadhur Ranabhat, 90. The couple is lucky, few here still have their spouses. Dhana  Kumari was forced here after her husband died, but married Dil Bahadhur, a retired soldier.



: Hira Bahadur Kadagi is taking his lunch. He used to have many friends with whom he would spend time drinking. Now he is sick and living here by himself, though he is still as jovial and  friendly as he says he always used to be.



Dipa Thapa, 75, has two pet cats in the shelter. They are her only friends. She used to sell flowers in Pashupati and when her husband died, she came here in Bridhashram.



Til Kumari Khatri, 71, and Yadongba Tamang, 70, laugh and play like children. Til Kumari has been here since 1998. Her daughter-in-law brought her to the shelter one day and left saying: “I’ll be back soon.” She never came back.



Laxmi Thapa, 68, prays to a wall full of pictures of the gods. She doesn’t remember where she was born or her family since she was married when she was so young. Laxmi worked as a domestic all her life. Her alcoholic husband used to beat her up. When she broke her arm, her employer abandoned her so she came here. Now she prays all the time. “I spend all my life helping others her,” she says, “now there is no one to help me.”



BEING SICK: Pashang Lama, 70, rests on her bed. Her physical health had been deteriorating for a long time. When the picture was taken she could barely get out of her bed. She is no more living.


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